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Relationships

Family – General:

• My greatest desire is to have a Forever Family.
• I love my family more than anything in this world.

Home Environment:

• When our family is together I feel I am HOME.
• We are a happy and joyous family.
• We get along and love to be together.
• We have tons of fun.
• We grow emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and physically.
• My positive example and loving manner creates and atmosphere of love and harmony in our family.

Activities:

• We eat dinner together as a family and get pleasure from each other’s company as we talk about our day. Then we turn on some music and clean the kitchen together, still talking or singing and laughing.
• I encourage our family to eat our meals together at the kitchen table. Having these meals together provides an opportunity to reconnect.
• At the end of each day I encourage a bedtime ritual for the children. After having family time, we read scriptures and have family prayer.
• There is always music playing in our home. Most often I set it as background music, but there are other times that we want to sing loudly with the music, dance, or get motivated while we are doing chores.
• On Sundays we have family time! We play games, eat popcorn, write letters, and just have fun together. Some Sundays we go to the hospital to cheer up patients.

Communication:

• Our family is very close. We can talk to each other, understand each other’s problems and concerns, share in joys and disappointments, and just hang out together. We love each other!!!
• There is love, harmony and unity in our home.  I foster this by looking for the good or the “God” in my children. I notice what they do right and compliment them for it. I am cheerful around them and I build up each child in their individual talents
• Our voices are joyful and our hearts are knit through our talk and touch, our hug and kiss, our eye-to-eye connection.
• I encourage them where they are in their lives.
• I always look for the positive aspects of their lives and encourage, inspire and compliment them.
• Because I love and respect each member of my family, I want them to grow emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and physically.   I love and respect them enough to allow them to take care of their own happiness.  I always look for the positive aspects o their lives and compliment them.  I plead with my Father in Heaven to protect and guide each member of our family.

What I do to create my ideal family:

• I look for the goodness of each of my family member’s spirit and respect what they have to say.
• I have confidence in each family member that they can take care of themselves.
• I love and respect my family and believe in them enough to trust they will take care of their own happiness.
• I pray daily to Heavenly Father to protect and guide each member of our family.
• I realize the predominant spirit in the home is a reflection of my spirit.
• My spirit of cheerfulness and optimism has a tremendous impact in our loving home.
• I have a fantastic relationship and communication with each member of my family.
• Because I am so happy with myself, I’m happy with those around me, especially my family.
• I understand that happiness is a choice therefore I choose to wake up happy every day.

Marriage:

• My family is the center of my life and ______ is the center of my heart. I love ____ so much.
• We are one in heart, mind and strength.

Qualities: I Am/We are:

• I am an open and loving husband.
• Our relationship is deep and rich.
• I am REAL and present in our relationship.
• Our time together is sacred.
• I feel completely comfortable with her. Our relationship is passionate and alive.
• We are adventurous and fun!
• We set a good example to our family and children.
• We are happy we found each other and remember often how luck in love we are.
• When we are together, we laugh a lot and have fun.
• We are developing our mutual gift for being particularly intuitive.
• We are very connected spirit to spirit, and know and follow promptings about each other.
• We appreciate the support given each other by praising the good qualities, believing in each other, asking about and honoring wishes, and understanding each other’s desires
• We are accountable and responsible in financial matters.
• The passionate quality and spontaneity of our love making is intensely satisfying to both of us, and it is an integral part of our deep bonds of closeness, which lifts us to a very high celestial plane.

Feelings about Spouse:

• I am grateful for her as a woman, a daughter of god, a wife and a mother.
• Every time I see her I am thankful.
• I am excited about being with her.
• I love who she is. These feelings are present in our relationship.
• I am in love with my wife!
• He brings satisfying comfort and joyful times, friends, quality experiences that add a multitude of dimensions to make our lives very rich in every possible way
• I am very attracted to him physically and love his personality.
• I strengthen and encourage his greatness with love and appreciation.
• I admire his talents and am aware of his needs and desires.
• _____ is perfect in every way.  He is kind, gentle, thoughtful, fun, interesting, and beautiful, inside and out.
• He is the soulmate of my dreams, and I love him unconditionally
• Because he is my best friend, I treat him with the love and respect he deserves.
• I notice his great qualities as a husband, father, and friend. I let him know how much I love him and appreciate the things he does for our family.
• With him by my side, i feel secure and satisfied financially, emotionally, spiritually, physically, and sexually.

Communication:

• I enjoy the relationship we have with each other where we are able to communicate the thoughts and feelings of our hearts.  We take time each night to be together, to talk about our day and also what we are feeling.  It is extremely easy for me to show my love to ____ and to compliment him and show my appreciation for him and I tell him daily. I appreciate ____________ (how loving he is, how hard he works and what a great companion he is.)
• All my words and actions come from my heart.
• We share our inner most feelings and desires with one another.
• We consistently take time to expand our love for one another.
• He is my best friend and I enjoy being with him and am madly in love with him.
• We show affection thru hugs and kisses every time we depart and see each other.
• When ______ comes home from a hard day of work, I greet him with a gentle kiss, and then let him unwind for a few minutes before bombarding him with details of the day. I am always excited to talk to him, but wait so he can participate in the conversation.
• At night after the kids go to bed, we talk about each of our children and their needs and how we can help them.
• We talk about us and the future. We are comfortable sharing feelings and respect each other’s feelings.
• We keep confidences and totally trust each other
• Each day I express my love and admiration for him by telling him how proud I am of his accomplishment and showing him frequent signs of affection.
• I can talk easily to my husband about anything, anytime, always being honest, clear, and appropriate. We respect each other’s wisdom, spirituality, time and personal space.  We give verbal and physical approval to each other, in public and privately.
• He listens with love and a deep sense of connection.  He is sharp, picking up on others needs.
• It feels good to us when we honor each other’s need for decompression after work and private time for work at home
• We are always open and honest,  sharing our desires, hopes, and concerns.
• I honor my wife in all I do and am.  I remember her always.  I am sensitive to her feelings and desires
• Because he is my best friend, I treat him with the love and respect he deserves.

Activities:

• We go on a date weekly, sometimes with our friends and sometimes alone. I plan one very nice date and month and so does _____.
• We have a companionship check-up each week where we can calmly talk about what’s working and what’s not working in our marriage.
• I take the initiative in having couples prayer each evening. I do this because I love my husband/wife and I love God. This has given our marriage a much more spiritual base.
• We discuss our financial obligations openly with each other several times a week.
• We have monthly meetings together discussing finances, goals, and plans.
• We share the love of good music, art, books, concerts, and the outdoors, as well as traveling together as often as possible discovering the beauties of the world.
• We focus on making our marriage a top priority by encouraging and being available for weekly date nights, quarterly weekends away, as well as at least one longer trip away annually.
• I write him notes and put them in his briefcase, I write a note on the mirror, I make goodies for him, I polish his shoes, I pick up his shirts at the cleaners, and any other small thing I can think of. It makes me feel good to know he realizes how much I love and appreciate him.

Children – Feelings:

• I know my children are unique and have incredible talents and abilities.  I do whatever I can to nurture them to realize their full measure.
• I am patient and affectionate with them.
• I feel joy and love from my children.
• I am grateful for them, and compliment them constantly.    I rush home from work to see them.
• They bring out the best in me.
• It’s easy to create joy and laughter when they are present.
• I am blessed to have such heavenly spirits as my children.  I express unconditional love to each one individually and collectively.
• My children and grandchildren bring me great joy.  They are a great source of inspiration to me.
• I love each of them with all of my heart.  I know what is happening in their lives as I communicate regularly with them.  I really listen to what they are saying and they know I am their best cheerleader.(
• I am sensitive to each of my children’s particular personalities and needs.  I recognize each one for who they are.  I know their individual worth.

Communication:

• Through my words and actions, my children know of their worth and importance
• My attention is focused first on them and their needs. I listen and encourage them where they are without solving their problems for them.
• I always greet them with love and a smile in my eyes to show them how happy I am to see them.
• All of my children know they can come to me no matter how they feel and can count on me to be a good listener without solving their problems for them
• I continually communicate with my children and ask advice where appropriate. I know that asking my children for input adds a very special dimension to our relationship and helps us to be much closer, sharing concern for each other and being more aware of each others needs and feelings.
• Through my words and actions, my children know of their worth and importance to their family and friends.  My attention is focused first on them and their needs and how I can make life more rewarding and fun for them.
• I always greet them with a smile in my eyes to show how excited I am to see them.
• I communicate my love for my children, and they feel confident in it. This is because I always greet them with a twinkle in my eye and a bright smile. It is obvious that I want to spend time with them, as I am fully present when they talk to me. Because I am always approachable, I inspire the children to be respectful if I am engaged in another conversation.

What I do (activity):

• I love to serve my children by helping them with homework, making them breakfast and dinner and assisting them in music lessons, sports and scouts. I am home in the afternoons so I can be there for my children.
• Once a month I take each of them on a small “date” where we can be alone AND JUST HAVE FUN! I look for many opportunities for one-on-one time with my children.  This is a time when we really bond and connect and the effort pays off tremendously. We enjoy being together and I always ask them how things are going in their lives.
• I take time each day for them individually.
• I assist them in learning of God and coming to know him.
• _______& I discuss each of our children each week and set goals and tasks for things we can do to assist them.
• We have our married children over for dinner twice a month on Sundays.
• While I am taking and picking up the younger kids to school, I get some one on one time to talk with them about their school and their day. I gain insight into their classes, teachers, and friends as they elaborate. I spend at least 15 minutes a day with each child individually so I can bond with them. Occasionally I write them a note of gratitude and hide it in their lunch or backpack, under their pillow, or in their shoe.
• I call _____________ once a week to share in their lives.  I adore them and let them know by the positive, magical, loving things I do and say
• I send all of my grandchildren surprises in the mail for holidays and birthdays.

Misc:

• I remember and honor their likes and dislikes.
• I pray for them individually every day.
• My family can depend on me to be an example in word and deed of all the truths and principles I believe in.  I teach them how to live by the spirit.  I teach them how to live in abundance.  I teach them how to work and to feel the satisfaction of doing for themselves, developing a healthy self esteem.  I teach them to honor and create their dreams through the power of god within, according to divine truth

Write a small paragraph for each individual child

Examples:

I enjoy my relationship with my daughter _____.  We spend time together each week talking about our future plans and opportunities and participating in a physical activity such as yoga or hiking.  _____has much ambition and talents that amaze me.  I am continually impressed with her maturity, her relationship that she is building with _____ and her dedication to improve her surroundings.

_____ and I talk several times a week and get together weekly.  We enjoy discuss our common interest of humanitarian service. _____ is a great daughter and I admire her for desire to create her ideal life. ____ has many unique talents and gifts including ambition, a deep spirituality, and a love of learning.

_____ is a sweetheart and we are lucky to have her in our family.  Her gifts include offering the gift of friendship to many.  She is a great friend and goes out of her way to be a great friend.  She is conscientious about her education and has a desire to grow spiritually and to develop her talents.

_____ has a kind heart and wants others to know of his love for them. He is a compassionate person and is kind to people who may not have many friends.  He is tender, sensitive and good-looking. He’s developing his talents in the arts and music.  He will receive his Eagle by his 16th birthday.  He is obedient and listens to his parents.

_____ is a very conscientious child with a sense of humor.  He is feisty, physical and very creative.  He is emotional and enjoys all the physical attention I give him.  I have been blessed with the greatest family in the world.

______ loves the Lord and is willing to do whatever it takes to be close to Him.  He is very forgiving and tolerant towards his sister and brothers.  They look up to him and share mutual respect for each other.  There is an unspoken and deep connection that he and I share when we are together.

______ is fun-loving and makes us all laugh with his sense of humor when we are together.  He has good common sense and problem-solving ability.  He has been blessed with an abundant life.  He is very generous with everyone and is sensitive towards others’ feelings.

______ has confidence in his abilities and gifts.   He is so loving, caring, patient, generous, and full of energy.  He is very successful in his job and well liked by everyone.  Spiritually he is growing everyday as he reads the scriptures and prays.

_____is very creative and artistic.   She uses this talent to be independent and provide for herself.  She is very supportive of her brothers and they in turn love her very much.  She values and cares for her health everyday.

_______ is very reflective, highly motivated, and has very good ideas.  We enjoy spending time together and working on projects.  He is preparing to serve a mission and is determined to be very successful.

Social:

• I meet and associate with new friends that are excited about life, its journey and are adventurous and successful.
• I surround myself with others who are playful and have a sense of humor.
• When I travel I always make new and lasting friends.
• It feels beautiful to reach out to new souls and share this journey of life.  I stay in touch with all friends old and new.
• I am outward focused.
• I remember people’s names from the moment I meet them.
• I am outgoing and energetic and make others feel comfortable, loved and accepted.
• I share my desires, dreams, feelings and goals with others and enjoy how this risk inspires and serves their lives.
• I empower and serve others to achieve their dreams and goals.
• I trust others and others trust me.  I feel honored to be trusted and to share in others lives.
• I look for the good in others and tell them so.
• I tell my friends I love them and that they are important to me.
• I respect and fid interest in the difference of my friends. I know that on the inside we are all the same.
• I want everyone I meet to know they are recognized by me and I show them this by listening to them.
• I tell the truth and practice the soft answer when asked for my opinion.
• I show integrity and love through my actions.
• I love people and I am thankful for my opportunities to interact with those around me.
• I look for the good qualities in others and make a special point of giving honest compliments and praise.
• I am tolerant of values and backgrounds which are different from my own.
• I see each person as a son or daughter of God and allow that person his or her weaknesses.
• I am a fantastic conversationalist.
• I keep myself well informed and am able to discuss current events and issues intelligently.  I do this by listening to radio programs and newspaper.
• I am a warm and loving person.
• I create an atmosphere of comfort and safety when others are confiding in me.
• I have a great sense of humor and am able to use that talent to put others at ease and relieve tension when appropriate.
• I have a talent for putting my thoughts into words.  When I am having a conversation with someone, I am assertive and able to say what I am thinking and feeling in a concise and interesting way, being tactful and diplomatic.
• I am honest and real.  I listen empathetically and actively while the other person is talking, concentrating on what he or she is saying and the feelings behind the words.
• I feel comfortable entertaining friends and colleagues in my home or attending social functions.
• I attract friends that share the same goals in life.
• I choose to be with people who uplift and enlighten, but learn from everyone I am around.
• I am fun to be around…spontaneous, creative, and exciting.
• I am positive and happy and have an uncanny ability to attract quality people.
• I enjoy life.  That joy is contagious to those around me.
• I am gracious and appreciative.
• When others are giving or kind, I am responsive and grateful.
• I am generous and give of my time to help others.
• The five people that I spend the most time with are the five people I most admire, respect and wish to become like.
• I have the ability to accept others as they are and show love unconditionally.
• My friendships are important to me and I keep them alive by finding connections between us.  I frequently call and invite them to do things with me and include those whom seem lonely and alone.  I look for events and activities that they are interested in and make arrangements to attend with them.
• I have a deep abiding connection with many personal friends.  I go the distance to be there for them, letting them know in special ways that I care.  I spend quality time sharing my life with them and having fun together.  My friends also bless me in these ways, and invite me to join them in exciting adventures, which bless all of our lives.  I know who my true friends are by the way they know me, love me, accept me, and share common interests.  I am having a blast with my group of wonderful friends who are showing up in my life now.

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Tony is my best friend! I would rather be with him than anyone! When we are together, we laugh a lot and have fun. Because he is my best friend, I treat him with the love and respect he deserves. I notice his great qualities as a husband, father, and friend. I let him know how much I love him and appreciate the things he does for our family.

When Tony comes home from a hard day of work, I greet him with a gentle kiss, and then let him unwind for a few minutes before bombarding him with details of the day. I am always excited to talk to him, but wait so he can participate in the conversation. At night after the kids go to bed, we talk about each of our children and their needs and how we can help them. We talk about us and the future. We are comfortable sharing feelings and respect each other’s feelings. We keep confidences and totally trust each other. Tony is so patient listening to me as I talk. He understands me.

Monday is Tony’s day off so we always plan something to do. There are some chores to do, but we do them together and enjoy each other’s company. We choose something fun to do as well. I even like golfing with Tony once in a while. I treasure these days alone with him, because for many years, he worked all of the time. Now for one day a week I get him to myself!

Tony never expects me to do things, so I like to surprise him and do little things for him. I write him notes and put them in his briefcase, I write a note on the mirror, I make goodies for him, I polish his shoes, I pick up his shirts at the cleaners, and any other small thing I can think of. It makes me feel good to know he realizes how much I love and appreciate him.

My family really enjoys a home cooked meal, so at least five times a week, I fix a good meal. We eat dinner together as a family and get pleasure from each other’s company as we talk about our day. Then we turn on some music and clean the kitchen together, still talking or singing and laughing.

I am a great mom!! I love spending time with my kids.

I love watching them play sports. They can always hear me because I am the best cheerleader in the stands! I take treats to pass out on game days. We invite their teams to our home to get to know them. Sometimes I am their coach or I assist their coaches.

While I am taking and picking up the younger kids to school, I get some one on one time to talk with them about their school and their day. I gain insight into their classes, teachers, and friends as they elaborate. I spend at least 15 minutes a day with each child individually so I can bond with them. Occasionally I write them a note of gratitude and hide it in their lunch or backpack, under their pillow, or in their shoe.

Each child has a day where they get to choose breakfast. I fix their breakfast and they know I care about them. Sometimes they even get to choose dinner on their day.

As the most important person in my life, I am abundant and authentic in every relationship. My priority lies within my internal family and the focus of family integrity. I then extend the love to my external family and best friends. My love then continues to all I interact with on a daily basis. My soul purpose is to be a steward of my relationship skills and bring true prosperity in the lives of all I meet. My mission is to create value in every relationship I have. I am a helper and see the greatness of all mankind.

I am an example of the true family man. “Alone Time” guides my life and I have a duty to pass on the feeling I get from one on one time to all other families. True wealth lies within family and friends. Thank you God for the gift you blessed me with to form life long relationships.

My soul mate Nicole and I have the most amazing authentic relationships. She is my best friend and mentor. Nicole and I continue to build our foundation every day. We have powerful conversations that allow both of us grow. Authenticity is our foundation principle. I recognize Nicole and her greatness every day of my life. Nicole and I meet on a weekly basis to discuss the best path for our lives and for our family. We take time to grow as husband and wife, teacher and student, and as best friends. I am committed to doing what Nicole wants in our time to bring joy and happiness in her life. This happiness drives me and allows me to feel truly blessed. Nicole and I have built a great life and enhance it every day. I compliment Nicole on the great achievements she makes every day. We live a life full of joy. I understand her and am always there to help her with any trial she may face. I am with Nicole for eternal life!

I am best friends with my oldest son Ryan. He and I enjoy spending time every week. I am committed to our communication being high level. I teach him the principles I believe in when we are one on one and allow him to internalize them for himself. I am a great teacher and father to him. He is a great teacher and son to me. I golf with him on a bi-weekly basis. I take him swimming and shooting as much as he wants. I support him in his decisions and allow him to fail forward with all trials. Ryan and I remain best friends for our lives and for eternity.

I am best friends with my second son Zach. I teach him the principles of abundance and allow him to become a man. I love spending time with him every week. I continue to allow him to be a free spirit and to find his own path in life. I am engaged in his skateboarding career and will support it. I promise to always be direct with him and allow him to live an abundant life. I am best friends with him in this life and for eternity.

I am best friends with my third son Josh. Josh and I talk about value and abundance and I guide him as much as he guides me. I am excited to spend one on one time every week with him. I am committed to do what he wants in that time and I find happiness in seeing him progress. Josh and I are best friends now and forever.

I am best friends with my fourth son Drew. I am committed to his independence and his identity. I look forward to our time every week together. I am his teacher and his student. I will do what he wants in our time together and enjoy the lessons I learn from him. I remain committed to being a friend as well as father and grow with him. I am with him in physical form and for eternal life after.

I talk to my mentor and best friend Tres every morning. I thank him for the conviction I have and for my belief in life after death. I share my trials with him and always look for guidance. He is an amazing soul and is part of our family. All of our children remember him and understand the value he brings to me every day. I will be with Tres for eternity.

I am the best father and friend to my daughter Ella. I am happy to do whatever my little princess wants to do. I protect her and give her free will. I enjoy every moment we have together. I teach her all of the principles I believe in and will always be there to help her. She is my teacher and allows me to always see the greatness in life. I am best friends with her in this life as well as for eternity

I am the best steward I can be everyday with my family. I recognize my parents Bob and Lindy and thank them for the lessons they teach me on an on-going basis. I spend time with them and allow my children to be with them as much as possible. I am in contact with my brother Bob and sister Wendy on a regular basis and keep my family close together. I am a brother, son, friend, student, and teacher to my family. I recognize my mother in law Pat and continue to grow our relationship. I spend time with her and my family on-going.

I keep in constant contact with all of my friends and be the best friend I can be. I always make everyone feel amazing and recognize them for the value each of them bring to my life. I acknowledge them and always build our foundation. I have high level conversations with all of my relationship and will play both a teacher and student role in each of them. I see the best in people and always learn from them and their experiences.

I am always gaining new friends and learning from them. I always bring high integrity and value. I always randomly make others feel amazing about our friendship. I host gatherings on a monthly basis to honor my friendships and to stay in touch. I introduce all I care about to my wife Nicole and make space to spend one on one time with couples. I support those I believe in: their families, their business, their values. I always create win/win relationships and am direct in our conversation.

I am always committed to “Alone Time” and enhance it as often as possible. I go on trips with each family member on each of their birthdays and will make them fell like the most important person in the world at all times. My family takes a minimum of 2 trips per year to new destinations.

My relationships with others bring me some of the greatest joys in my life.

I have beautiful, thriving relationships with my children, with my significant other, with my family and my friends.  I focus on our quality of time together quality more than quantity of relationships, and I am conscientious in reflecting back to all the people I love how much I love them and all the wonderful things I see in them.  By doing this, I am sought after as a friend and colleague and am known as someone who always sees the best in others and helps strengthen and bless the lives of the people who are important to me.  I always remember birthdays and am known for giving thoughtful gifts from the heart.  In all my interactions with others, I strive to treat them in a way that uplifts and inspires and makes them feel like they are the most bright, amazing, beautiful creatures on the planet.

My children are the most important people in my life.  Each one is a precious gift from God, and I treat them as such.  I make them a priority each and every day.  I talk to my children every day, creating an environment of trust, healing, nurturing, and love.  I know my children inside and out.  I intuitively know when something is bothering them or when they have something they are having difficulty expressing.  I help them learn to be strong independent beings who radiate light and love and live lives of responsibility and integrity and up to their fullest potential.

I have so much We have FUN with my family together.  At least twice a month, I we plan fun family activities, such as art projects, service projects, camping trips, hikes, plays.  I am always keeping up to date with the fun things to do in my community.

I teach my children by example and at every opportunity with word and deed to be optimistic and cheerful.  To realize that they can create the lives they desire.  The importance of having strong values.  How to be amazing friends and get along with others.  How to develop their talents.  How to develop strong habits that will last a lifetime.  How to be healthy and thrive mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.

I regularly improve my parenting skills through reading parenting books and through taking classes and through talking with friends.  I maintain a positive, loving relationship with Brent and Jen, and actively work with them to ensure they are creating a positive and nurturing environment for my children who live with them and that they have the children’s best interests at heart at all times.

I have a wonderful significant other.  I see We see into the depths of his each other’s heart and soul.  My Our relationship is of highest priority to me both of us.  I am We are totally and giddily in love with him each other.  I We adore him each other.  I We delight in the time we spend together.  I am We are building a life of fulfillment and joy.  I We respect him each other in all things, and actively create a beautiful life together.  I We nurture him each other mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.

I honor my femininity and offer up the best parts of me to him, in love, adoration and respect.  I communicate with him openly, honestly, and with vulnerability at all times.  I play with him.  I work with him.  I admire him, and I respect him.  I We openly share my our dreams and desires with him each other and support him each other in the fulfillment of his those dreams.

Because of the way I treat him, with sweetness, tenderness, and unconditional love – always showing my gratitude for him and treating him with thoughtfulness and always seeing and reflecting back to him his best qualities, I invoke in him the same behaviors towards me.  Our relationship is deep and meaningful.  I We can rely on him each other to always be there for me the other person.  I am We are always real and present with him each other.  I We build a set of shared values, upon which we look forward with great anticipation and joy to building the life of our dreams.

I We nurture our natural deep connection and intimacy on a mental, emotional, physical and spiritual level.  I We love to learn together about a variety of topics that interest me us, and we love to strengthen and deepen our emotional connection.  I We enjoy discussing matters of a spiritual nature and can freely express my our feelings about the Divine and love and respect and I learn from him each other.

I We enjoy a wide variety of activities with him each other.  I We love spending time with my children and his our children.  I see his Each other’s children as my become our OWN children.  I We each plan two wonderful dates per month, and always keep it fun and spontaneous.  I love to have a sense of adventureWe have a common sense of adventure.  I plan travel adventures for us so we can We travel together, experience all sorts of new activities together, cook together, shop together.  I We retain each of us a very strong sense of myself while also having a very strong sense of who we are as a couple and the ways in which I we want us to grow.  I We respect each other’s his needs for personal time and I we trust him each other and our life of fidelity to live lives of fidelity.

I We love our group of friends and nurture my our relationships with other people and couples and families.  I We regularly attend social gatherings and host a social gathering at least once a month.  I am We are known for throwing great parties with wonderful people, food, activities and entertainment.  I We take pride in the roles I we play in our community. I enjoy having a partner I can include in the things that

My Our sexual life is sacred, beautiful, spontaneous, adventurous and deeply fulfilling.  I am We are always expressing my our love for him each other with affectionate touch and massage and eye-to-eye contact.  I We love to experience pleasure together and delight that when I we make love with him it is a union of heart, body and souls.  I We feel free and safe to explore our sexuality and to keep it fun, playful, and fresh.  This is a priority to me each of us and I we strive to make it a part of my our daily connection with him.

I have beautiful friends and family in my life.  I attract people into my space that are dynamic, beautiful, talented, creative, inspirational, kind, loving, respectful, interesting, playful, successful, and brilliant.

I nurture my relationships with others, developing life-long bonds.

I have a tribe of beautiful men and women who are amazing and bless my life every day.  I have my writer’s group twice a month and my book club twice a month.  I have a monthly brunch with my girls.  I always keep up to date with what is happening in each of my friends’ lives and make it a priority to remember important dates.  I take the initiative to create relationships that are beautiful and inspiring… I am known for giving thoughtful gifts and for my warmth and my loyalty.

I always enjoy meeting new people and shining a spotlight on them, helping them to better see their own awesomeness.  I am constantly improving my ability to make conversation in an engaging, dynamic way that focuses on the other individuals with whom I am conversing.  I remember names, faces, and details about people.  I help people to make connections with each other.  I take lots of pictures and makes lots of happy memories with my friends and family.

I am an excellent wife.    My husband and I love each other unconditionally.  We complement each other with our own unique gifts and talents. We nurture and support each other in our individual roles.  I speak kindly and respectively to my husband.  He is a good provider and frequently helps with the household duties, giving us more time together as a couple and as a family. I enjoy supporting Steve with his work by helping him organize his office and assist with the invoicing.  I support him in his role as a husband and father by maintaining an uplifting attitude and praise him for his labors on our behalf.  I show my husband gratitude by verbalizing my appreciation to him daily.  He is always respectful towards me and our children.  He loves to hear about my dreams and desires.   Steve is supportive of my work as a Life coach. He willingly compensates for my absence in the home when I am at work. I actively and lovingly listen to Steve to better serve him by being sensitive to his needs and concerns.  We are honest, open and clear when we communicate.  We meet once a month to discuss finances, parenting and future goals.  We are considerate of each other’s differences and look for ways to find a balance that is satisfying to us both.

My husband and I enjoy an active life. We engage in many outdoor activities such as fishing, hiking, camping and dirt bike riding.  We make time to travel to new exciting places to experience this beautiful earth.   We take family vacations together as frequently as we can.  As a family we make plans together and set goals for each vacation.

Steve and I share the same desire to be good stewards over our children.  We are patient, thoughtful and loving parents.  We teach principles in our home that are centered in Christ.  We pray together daily in gratitude and on behalf of our families.  We enjoy studying and pondering the scriptures together. Our home is peaceful and full of joy and laughter.  We are abundantly blessed and are very prosperous in our businesses.

I cherish my role as a mother.  I find great joy in nurturing and teaching my children.  I consider it a sacred and divine role to be a co creator with God on this Earth.  I practice righteous dominion in the stewardship given to me as a mother of 3 spiritual giants.  I recognize and honor my spiritual contracts with my sons by providing a peaceful and righteous home. I am deeply connected to my children spiritually and trust the intuition and revelation given to me to better serve them and help them to know and understand their individual purposes on this Earth.  I pray and council with my Heavenly Father daily on their behalf.  I am a patient, charitable and compassionate mother.  I love my children unconditionally.  We honor and respect each other.  Our family is unified in our commitment to serving each other and the Lord.  I make time to attend to the needs of my children.  I tell them often how much I love and appreciate them. I encourage, inspire and uplift my children by my positive words and deeds.  My children trust me and know that they are loved and safe no matter any choice that they make. They openly communicate with me in an honorable and respectful way, as I do them.

Kevinis a fun loving young man.  He is a practical joker and we enjoy having fun and laughing together.  He is very helpful around the house.  He loves to play the drums and is diligent in his practice time. I enjoy watching him progress in this talent.   He loves to ride his dirt bike and takes good care of his equipment.   I love to see the excitement in his eyes every time he gets to ride. I am supportive in his desire to race his dirt bike, while teaching him to manage his time and prioritizing his responsibilities.  I enjoy making plans with him about his future mission and education.  Kevin is very inquisitive about the gospel and his purpose here on the earth.  I love to listen to his ideas of whom and what God is. I love to share truth and light with him.  I strive to be an example of Christ to Kevin.  I seek opportunities to help Kevin recognize the promptings of the spirit and how to act on them to have a more peaceful life.

Tim is a peacemaker.  He is very thoughtful of others and enjoys being helpful.  We have a very deep spiritual and emotional connection.  He is like a best friend to me.  We can talk about anything and feel trusted and safe. Tim has many talents.  He has natural physical abilities that allow him to excel in anything that he tries.  He is very independent and self assured but is very humble. Tim is a visionary much like myself and I love to hear him share his ideas and dreams.  I encourage him to set goals and accomplish his desires.  He is a good brother, especially to our youngest.  Tim is patient and easy going.  I love just hanging out with him. Tim is very respectful and loving toward me.  He is attentive to me and knows just how to lift my spirits.  I make sure to show my gratitude for all that he contributes to our family.

Grant is so full of life.  He is very animated and loves to entertain people.  When he finds something that he is passionate about he goes full on.  I tell him how much I admire this and look for ways to help him develop his many talents.  He is very creative and has great ideas.  I love to help him see his creations come to life.  I enjoying painting, dancing and singing with him.  I love to watch his performances and feel his sense of accomplishments for his efforts.  We love to snuggle and read books together.  I love when he lays his head in my lap for me to play with his hair.  Grant is very wise and very intuitive.  I encourage him to develop this gift by helping to recognize, trust and act upon it.  He is a quick learner.  He loves to do random acts of kindness for others. I help in any way I can to help him serve others.  I love Grant’s infectious smile.  He can melt the hardest of hearts.   Grant brings much joy, laughter and love to our home.

I am a loyal friend.  I am honest and trustworthy in my relationship with others.  I value and respect my friends.  I treat others with love and compassion.  I actively listen and seek ways to be uplifting, encouraging and supportive to my friends.  I have a zest for life and always seek to find the good in others.  I acknowledge the oneness that we all share and honor the brilliance and uniqueness we individually posses.  I am a vibrant light who loves to inspire people.   I have a beautiful smile and frequently share it.  I am spontaneous, creative and funny.  People are drawn to me by my positive attitude and my loving heart.  I am extremely intuitive and use this gift to know specifically how to help someone.   I have many friends who posses the same attributes as I do.  I choose to associate with like minded people who are positive, uplifting and compassionate.   I associate with those that are desirous of making a difference in the world.  I gather in numbers with my friends to bring light and love to lift the Earth to a higher consciousness of a more Joyful, abundant and peaceful living.